(The Root) –
“My best friend is a guy I have known for almost seven years. We’re former co-workers, and he now lives in a nearby state with his girlfriend. We’re both busy with work and our relationships and don’t speak very often, maybe once every other week. Mostly we text and send emails sporadically to keep in touch. Our friendship is strictly platonic, but my boyfriend of almost three years has suddenly become irrational and insecure, saying that he is ‘uncomfortable’ with me having a male best friend, and he has asked me to end that relationship. I cherish my relationship and my friendship and can’t imagine giving up either. What do I do?” –T.E.
Despite the opinion of another popular relationship expert, I’m of the opinion that yes, men and women actually can be friends. I’ve had a male “best” friend,











